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Today during church I heard a quote that I’ve heard numerous times throughout the years from David O McKay (a former LDS prophet), which I think is a very good quote to hear and apply over and over again. The quote given in 1965 to a group of LDS church employees is as follows:
“Let my assure you, Brethren, that some day you will have a personal Priesthood interview with the Savior, Himself. If you are interested, I will tell you the order in which He will ask you to account for your earthly responsibilities.
First, He will request an accountability report about your relationship with your wife. Have you actively been engaged in making her happy and ensuring that her needs have been met as an individual?
Second, He will want an accountability report about each of your children individually. He will not attempt to have this for simply a family stewardship but will request information about your relationship to each and every child.
Third, He will want to know what you personally have done with the talents you were given in the pre-existence.
Fourth, He will want a summary of your activity in your church assignments. He will not be necessarily interested in what assignments you have had, for in his eyes the home teacher and a mission president are probably equals, but He will request a summary of how you have been of service to your fellowmen in your Church assignments.
Fifth, He will have no interest in how you earned your living, but if you were honest in all your dealings.
Sixth, He will ask for an accountability on what you have done to contribute in a positive manner to your community, state, country, and the world.”
I thought it was interesting that the top two things mentioned are relationships within the walls of the home. I was touched as I read the post “Remembering my Dad.” In this post, the author describes how he lost his father over 30 years ago, but not a day goes by that he doesn’t think about him. He then goes on to describe what he misses about his father, most of which includes how his father treated his wife and kids.
As I reflect back on my own memories of my father, I don’t think about the church assignments he went to or how hard he worked to provide for us (even though that is definitely important, and he definitely did work hard to provide). I do think of the time we spent with each other though. The following things come to mind:
- My Dad teaching me how to read by the age of 4 and also teaching me to play the piano by the age of 5.
- Watching my Dad mow the lawn while I was very young wishing I could mow the lawn (now I wish my Dad was here to mow my lawn!)
- Dad’s homemade popcorn
- Dad playing church songs on the piano
- Loading too much hay on the trailer and it broke the axle as my brother an I fell off the wagon laughing.
- Long talks at 4:00 a.m. in the barn milking cows.
- The time my father and mother took us in a canoe at Jackson Hole, Wyoming and had a water fight in the canoe.
- Dad making donuts for my brother and I after a long days’ work on the farm and eating so many donuts that we couldn’t breathe anymore.
- My Dad staying up late when his sisters would visit laughing and being silly. I learned by watching him interact with them how to have a good relationship with siblings no matter how old you are.
- I remember the way he treated my step-mom and how impressed I was at a young age and how I wanted to have a wife like her and treat her like my dad did.
- He was our scout leader and had so much fun with all of us. One time as he was swinging in the rope swing with all of us into the river he lost his glasses and we had to guide him back to the car afterwards. All the boys thought my Dad was awesome and I remember feeling proud that he was my dad.
- Coming home after a date in highschool and my Dad waiting up for me to hear how the date went.
- Staying up late with my friends talking with Dad in highschool until I fell asleep (and my friends and Dad kept talking)
- After going to college and returning home for a visit; wrestling my Dad discovering that he wasn’t invincible after all.
- Teasing my Dad about his bald head only to discover 20 years later that I have the same fate!
- Seeing him cry with joy and love as my wife and I were married.
- Watching him play in the sand on the beach with my little daughter.
Now that I am a father, I strive to remember the memories of my father that I cherish and I try to create memories for my little daughter. I try to make sure I spend time reading with her and playing with her regularly. I try to make sure she always has some time to get up on my shoulders or ride my back. I try to make sure I am there to give her a bath at night and tuck her into bed. There is never a day that goes by that I do not think about the first day I saw her eyes look up at mine as a newborn and tears came to my eyes to see such a precious and sweet little girl fresh from Heaven. I try to always whisper into her ear that Daddy loves her and has always loved her since the first day I saw her before I tuck her in at night. I hope that out of all of the things I try to do that she remembers at least a handful of them and it helps her in her life.
I recieved the following message from a reader the other day:
I liked reading your letter on God and receiving his message through understanding of God´s manner of speaking.
I have been reading very much and watching Daystar programs considerably. All of these things are interesting but the more I read the Bible and meditate, pray, and listen for that voice of God— the farther and farther from understanding anything it seems.
If I continue to understand less and less as there is so much contradiction, the natural process would be to become an athiest. Something I am not hoping for.
But my simple and nieve question is– If God can do anything, why can´t he communicate with us?
After all that silly business of speaking in tongues is accepted as real and I think is nonsense. Is that God speaking to us?
I wish I could find some message that felt like it really represented our relation to God, if there is indeed a relation.
I have written about this in previous articles throughout the years. Most notably Discerning between God Speaking and our Own Desires, and Receiving and Recognizing Answers to Prayers. In these articles, I address various ways to understand God and how He has spoken to me.
I feel that it would be beneficial for the reader to see other people’s responses though rather than just mine. Take some time to pray and ask God to help this reader before you respond. I have faith it will help him.
Thanks for your help!